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Therefore what? The site’s closing question, handed to you. On the
path that is real, the road we cannot walk for you, and what you
will teach us when you walk it.
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Authenticity
The illusion of perfection costs more than we know. On putting it down, the help we needed to do it, and how authenticity becomes the gateway to who we are becoming.
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Peacemaking
We were both conflict avoiders, and neither of us was actually peacemaking. The peacemaker the Savior promised would be called a child of God is not the person whose conversations are smooth. The peacemaker is the person whose heart is no longer at war.
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The years are not lost
On the illusion of perfection, the wreckage that breaks it, and what we have come to believe about the years it cost us.
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What grace looks like
There is a voice in your head that has opinions about you. On the harshness we mistake for honesty — and the grace that is being offered anyway.
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I never knew
A phrase that came to us in a dream, before there was anything to describe.
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The shape of the journey
We didn’t expect a framework developed for faith crises to become the map we use for everything. But one morning on a hike above our home, we held it up against our divorce journey — and it fit, precisely. Here is the map, and where you might find yourself on it.
